I’m Engaged, Now What?
Congratulations on your engagement! Whether this moment feels surreal or it's something you've eagerly awaited, getting engaged is a huge milestone in any relationship. The days and weeks following your proposal can be a whirlwind of excitement and emotions.
There's so much to do and so many people to share the news with. Before you start to feel overwhelmed, take a deep breath—you're in the right place, and I'm here to help. Planning a wedding is a big undertaking, but you don't have to make every decision the second you say ‘yes.’
Wondering where to start? Here are the top five things engaged couples should do first:
1 - Share the news!
One of the first things to do after getting engaged is to share your happy news. Take your time—whether that's immediately or after you've enjoyed the moment privately. Some couples can't wait to post on Instagram, while others prefer to savor the news with close friends and family first. Just make sure to tell your immediate family and closest friends before going public on social media. And if you're planning a ring selfie, treat yourself to a manicure or tidy up your nails to make that ring shine!
2 - Enjoy being engaged.
Celebrate this exciting time! Gather your best friends and family for a celebratory drink or meal, or have a special date night with your fiancé. You’re engaged, and it's a moment worth cherishing. Take some time to just enjoy this new phase of your relationship. Whether you have a party or an engagement photo shoot, do what feels right for you. If you're eager to start planning, that’s okay too—just make sure you enjoy the ride.
3 - Have an open discussion with your partner about key wedding planning decisions.
When you’re ready to dive into planning, start by sitting down with your partner to discuss three key topics: who will be involved in decision-making, your overall budget, and your top priorities for the wedding day. Think about the location, your guest list, and the overall vibe you want for your day. Talk to any key stakeholders, like family, to set a realistic budget. Discuss your top priorities with your partner to understand what each of you finds important —whether it’s the food, the music, or the venue—as this will help guide your decisions.
4 - Hire a wedding planner.
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and you should be able to enjoy every moment. Hiring a wedding planner can make the planning process stress-free and fun. A planner helps you navigate decisions based on your priorities and budget, mediates differing opinions, and ensures you can be fully present on your big day. Let's work together to make your wedding day as perfect as your love story!
5 - Determine your VIPs and ensure they can attend on your ideal wedding date at your preferred location.
Identify your VIPs—the loved ones you can't imagine your wedding day without. Make sure they can attend on your ideal date and at your chosen location. Being upfront with your inner circle will help ensure they can be there to celebrate with you.
Overall, take a moment to breathe and enjoy this special time. Wedding planning can quickly become overwhelming, but remember to enjoy the journey.
Booking a wedding planner can save you time and stress, so reach out if you’d like to work together to plan your dream wedding day! Check out my Full Planning and Wedding Management packages to see how I can help.